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I love this society:)

what a world a woman lives in…if she dares to be herself..if she wants to be herself,if she tries not to travel the roads a woman should not…if she wants to soar high…if she wants to be alone..if she wants to drink,if she wants to smoke,if she wants to keep the company of men she likes or leave the company of men she could not afford to hurt on a lie…

its so small..the world she is forced to live in…that’s a big lesson I learn..and yet I unlearn..

only to learn again,through the grey of some wise people..through the eyes of a myopic few mortals..

a woman has to either play by their rules or be ready to live with the stigma of being a whore..
a whore for the so big crime of being herself..applause!!!,and how did she do that?all the men must be thinking,talking and dissecting..is not it?

when a woman suddenly feels bigger than her life,when she knows she can no more contain her happiness in her ‘limits’…what happens?

her wings are clipped,she HAS TO part with a portion of herself…how else can she survive in this world..wont the moral force maul her with their big moral claws?

would it not be a matter of shame if she trespassed the lines that were drawn for her…without her knowing it of course?
would it not appall the generations of sanctity, loyalty,layers of lies that are built around her existence to continually enforce on her the rules…the duties,the spaces she can walk on..and the closed doors she should not knock on?

I totally agree with the world….I mean common,when all the bloody rules are made for her..why should she dare think of re-inventing them,why should she think of writing some for her own,just for her own…why should she think of turning the wheels and disturbing the balance that society has planned out?

I am with the world on this…,cos is it not stupidity?

so what if society has different notions of a thing and a woman has different ones!!
There is no concept of relative goodness when it comes to society..its either good,either bad ,or a whore’s sorry tale!!

I pity my daughter who would be born into this world….so much has already been planned for her,so many rules already waiting to eat on her existence when she transitions from a girl to a woman….so many choices waiting for her…not so that she can select,but so that she HAS TO embrace them!!
Infinite spaces,limited free breaths.But Bravo!!:)

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9 thoughts on “I love this society:)

  1. That was a real fiery post…i wish we lived in a world where things would have been different…but the fact is the world does come on women pretty hard…while men do what they do,your actions are always dissected & analyzed…i have been a party to some dissections myself…Dunno what made society make such primitive customs…But i think similar though much less severe conditions exist for men as well…in a different sort of way we are also expected silly & unjust norms & conform to baseless expectations…its always like a fight for your independence,isn’t it??

  2. this is “thoughts exploded” ! Our’s is a society that is greatly renowned for the place given to women and there is no denying the fact that their are analyzed critically. Remember, our society is the same all over the world that tends to hold on to the flaky little values of how they define “good reputation”. I cannot give you a concrete solution/answer to the questions looming large on you. But try getting individualistic in your thought process as the world is moving towards that. “Reputation is what others think about you and Character is what you truly are in your inside”.

  3. hmmm..some things i agree with and some things i don’t. but i think the only way to fight this out is by just being the change. its a responsibility of either of the sexes.

  4. you wouldn’t even be angry with society if a small part of you didn’t want to secretly get its approval 🙂 this quote makes me feel a lot better about some stuff that i think(but can’t say coz i am a “woman”)and want(or do i really ?)…”There’s nothing “right” or “wrong”…theres’ only what you do and what you don’t”-From the movie, “Unfaithful”

  5. barun i was not exactly glorifying the excesses enjoyed by the male sex,but yes i may have grumbled a lil more about the inexcesses of the fairer sex..hehe!! but whatever it is,it feels good to know the opinions you expressed..and yes its always a fight to assert oneself.I agree!!

  6. I would see it this way – as you shall sow, so shall you reap. Two wrongs don’t make a right. You’re asking for freedom to justify you acts. That is a contradiction in itself.In your blog, you’ve vilified the entire male species. Who gives whom the right to make such a sweeping statement? Do you think rules are out “there”? Every man and woman follows his or her own rules. Those who live by the sword, die by it alone, and nothing else.Do what you want to, offering explanations is seldom of any use. Either do, or don’t do. Either way, you shall face the appropriate results. It depends on what results you like. That is the only freedom you shall have. And that is all that usually matters.

  7. I would see it this way – as you shall sow, so shall you reap. Two wrongs don’t make a right. You’re asking for freedom to justify you acts. That is a contradiction in itself.In your blog, you’ve vilified the entire male species. Who gives whom the right to make such a sweeping statement? Do you think rules are out “there”? Every man and woman follows his or her own rules. Those who live by the sword, die by it alone, and nothing else.Do what you want to, offering explanations is seldom of any use. Either do, or don’t do. Either way, you shall face the appropriate results. It depends on what results you like. That is the only freedom you shall have. And that is all that usually matters.

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